Unless one is a robot throughout his life will experience an indefinite series of emotions, both positive and negative. Humans are so unpredictable that we sometimes have mixed feelings as love-hate toward the same person, varying according to circumstances. The friend who shares our secrets will profess genuine affection, but that does not prevent us ever get angry with him, to feel defrauded by some attitude hers.
Very different things excite us. Who has not thrown a tear to see a romantic movie like "Gone with the Wind" ?, and it is because we identify with both characters that come to us the soul.
The most important life events tend to move us further, as the birth of a child, death of a loved one, or the encounter with the beloved. But also shake our hearts everyday things like the arrival of a letter, a good read, the farewell of a friend, receiving an unexpected gift, the warm embrace of a mother, or listen to our favorite song.
They can also awakened negative emotions when we face situations that seem unfair, as the desire for revenge or anger.
Schizophrenia sufferers do not usually have good emotional control and jumped violently from joy to sadness, anger to passivity. Understanding emotions is a good way to learn to manage to not see things in black or white but gray helps us to deal with situations more calmly, to relativize the problems.
I remember a postcard with "faces" reflecting all possible emotions and how emotions are often ephemeral jump from one to another as if we try them all in one bite. The good news is not repress but to channel them.
Lately the most exciting thing that happened in my life is not up to a roller coaster or have practiced an extreme sport, but the simple fact resume via email friendship with two friends living abroad. I was thrilled to note that we could tell our problems and share our feelings as we did in adolescence. What things excite you, dear reader?
Rosa
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